How to confess your love to a girl so that she has no chance of refusing you
I foresee everything: you will be offended by the explanation of the sad secret. What bitter contempt your proud look will portray.
It is with these lines that Onegin’s letter to Tatyana begins, in which he confesses his love to her. This was how it was customary in the time of the immortal Pushkin to confess his love to a girl - to write her a letter. But how do men do this now? #Who broke the phone, or why doesn’t it ring?#
Unfortunately, in our age of constant haste, many have forgotten that a declaration of love is not just three cherished words. This is where the relationship between a man and a woman begins. But, as they say, the worst is the beginning!
Let's talk about how still confess your love to a girl so that she not only reciprocates, but also remembers this wonderful moment forever!
How to stop being afraid to be the first to confess your love
It’s good that social networks make communication much easier when people in a virtual network declare their love for each other. Yes, it's nice. But it is much more pleasant to receive recognition in the real world. If people are at a considerable distance from each other, you can confess your love using the Internet. However, there is no need to do this in writing and with errors if the addressee is a literate person. After all, this may offend him.
There are girls who fall in love with guys first, but are never the first to admit it. To prevent the relationship from cooling down, the girl began to be friends with the guy. And when he confessed his love to her, friendly relations smoothly flowed into romantic ones.
You can still understand teenagers who are afraid to confess their love. Because the opposite sex can make fun of them or mock the lover in every possible way. If a girl is the object of ridicule, she will be insecure and unlikely to trust men. And it is impossible to unequivocally answer the question - should a girl be the first to confess her love? Because there are still men who lose all interest in that charming woman who openly admitted her feelings.
Is it possible to be the first to confess your love to a man?
To protect yourself, you can be the first to confess your love. But you shouldn’t rush into it if the object of your love is weak to the attention of the opposite sex. After all, your feelings can become the subject of gossip and ridicule. Wise women arrange the situation in such a way that the man is the first to confess his love to them.
The main thing is not to close yourself off from the world over the years. Don't avoid people. Don't become more rude and cruel. Surprisingly, even in their school years, boys think of giving their class teacher a chocolate bar so that she can seat them next to those girls that the boys ask for. And adults give gifts to their friends so that they can arrange for them to meet the object of their desires.
How to hint about your love?
With the help of valentines and internet hearts, you can hint about your love. It is very difficult to confess love to the latest generation, since they were born practically with gadgets in their hands. It is difficult for them to look their interlocutor in the eyes and hold their attention on him for a long time. However, you shouldn’t hide this wonderful feeling to yourself. Show your imagination so that your loved one understands this clearly. For example, prepare some kind of romantic surprise with elements of your own creativity.
The younger a person is, the more sensitive he is to love rejection. But even if you are scared, confess your love. This will not only ease your soul, but also lift your spirits.
The most important thing is to take your time and think things through
There comes a moment in every man’s life when he meets her - the most beautiful, the best, in general, the very best. And here many men have the question “how can I tell her that I love her?”
Before looking for the answer to this question, ask yourself another question - do you really want to confess your love? Do you confuse the feeling of love with affection, gratitude for something, or simple sexual attraction? After all, for every girl, the words “I love you” are not just three pleasant words, they are the key to a new world, new sensations, to the understanding that you are not alone and someone needs you! And once you say them to a girl, without first thinking about the need for these words at a given moment in time, you can hurt her painfully in the future when you realize that this is not love at all...
Therefore, before declaring your love, ask yourself again - do you love her?
Everything is decided - I love her!
So, you've fallen in love and that's great! This is the most burning feeling that lifts you to the skies and pushes you to accomplish great deeds.
It should be noted here that there is hardly a man who confesses his love to a girl on the second day of acquaintance, not counting, of course, those men who say “I love you” every second day and for the sake of their own goals. We are talking about a sincere feeling, about the desire to make the person you love happy.
As a rule, love between a man and a woman arises from existing relationships - friendship, long-term acquaintance, that is, when they have the opportunity to get to know each other, see each other periodically and, in the end, understand that this is exactly the person I need!
Often a man says “no, no, what are you talking about! We have nothing, we are just friends!” But in fact, spending time next to a girl hides sincere love under the guise of friendship. This happens because confessing your love to a girl with whom you have been friends for quite some time can be very difficult.
Men have a fear that a girl who is currently in the status of a friend perceives you only as a friend, as a person with whom it is pleasant to spend time and nothing more. And a declaration of love to a girl friend may not only not open up a new relationship for a man, but as a result may lead to the loss of a friendly connection with her. Therefore, it is important to prepare very carefully for the moment of declaration of love, and not dumbfound the girl with words about love.
Capricorn: uses a rational approach in love
Everyone knows about the rationalism and practicality of Capricorn. He attaches great importance to every word he says, so he never says anything just like that. Capricorn is not one of those who trust first impressions; he cannot fall in love at first sight and will never allow feelings to prevail over reason. He can only develop sympathy for a person whom he already knows well enough. After this, he can give the chosen one a whole series of all kinds of tests, demonstrate to him all his shortcomings, and only after that will he decide whether this person is worthy of his love.
Capricorn's partners need to be prepared for the fact that they may not receive declarations of love. Even sincerely and deeply loving Capricorns continue to remain reserved people, not accustomed to demonstrating their feelings and emotions. But loving Capricorns show their love through care, respect and willingness to always and in everything support those they love.
Added: 2021-02-10 10:20 Last modified: 2021-02-21 19:17
I'm not a coward, but I'm afraid!
The first thing you will have to deal with, if you decide to confess your love to a girl, is your shyness and embarrassment.
Any person experiences fear of the unknown, of what can change his life in one direction or another, especially when it comes to feelings. And that's absolutely normal. The instinct of self-preservation has not yet been canceled. And when you know that they can refuse you reciprocity, and even worse, laugh at you, then indecision comes into its own.
Well, first of all, it should be noted here that embarrassment, shyness and timidity are not bad at all! It’s bad to be at odds with yourself when experiencing such feelings.
To overcome embarrassment and timidity and confess your love to a girl, first of all, find the main reason for your embarrassment.
If you are worried about the end result of your confession, then most likely this indicates that you yourself are not yet ready for such a conversation. You once again need to analyze your feelings for your beloved girl, evaluate the possibility of your future together with her, and if you are completely sure that you want to be with her, then embarrassment should fade into the background. Tune in to the idea that you are doing everything right and you need to take this step at all costs, try your luck, so to speak.
It is possible that your lack of self-confidence arises as a result of underestimating your own qualities. You think she is too good for you and will never reciprocate your feelings. In this case, you should look for the strengths of your personality. Each person is unique in their own way! In order to be interesting and attractive to a girl, you don’t have to be like Brad Pitt and have a personal bank account like Bill Gates. It's enough to be yourself.
Think about what interests her as a friend? Perhaps you have the same passion, hobby, or you are colleagues and often you and she have common questions about work. You can find quite a lot of points of contact with the object of your love dreams. The most important thing is to think positively and not get lost in your timidity. Find common qualities and life positions with her and, starting from them, go towards the intended goal.
However, if you are still overcome by timidity, close your eyes, imagine how life will change when your other half appears in it, how you will wake up in the morning and smell her hair on your pillow. think... is your embarrassment stronger than the desire to become happy and make her happy?!
So the question is “ how can I muster up the courage and confess my love to her ?!” should become rhetorical for you men. After all, you are considered a strong part of humanity for a reason!
Take everything into your own hands and forge your own happiness. And happiness in this case will definitely not take long to arrive! Fate helps the brave!
How can a girl confess her love to a guy?
The girls were less fortunate. There is a stereotype in society that the fair half does not need to take the initiative and be the first to admit feelings. Some guys begin to take advantage of girls' crushes and behave with them not very honestly and like a gentleman. Therefore, as a girl, it can be difficult for you to take the first step.
But fortunately, guys also understand hints that a girl is not indifferent to them. You can confess your feelings to a guy without saying “I love you” first. How to do it?
- Show a genuine interest in the guy you like. Find out about his hobbies, try to find common topics. If you first make friends with a young man, it will be easier to confess your love.
- Show a little coquetry. Girls know how to “make eyes” and smile welcomingly. With a look and a smile, let the young man know that you are not indifferent to him.
- Sometimes it's easier to write about feelings than to say them. Try writing on a social network that you like communicating with a guy, give him a compliment about his appearance or intelligence, his abilities.
- Unobtrusively compliment the guy you like, how strong, brave he is, etc. Men love it when women admire them and appreciate their masculine qualities. It is quite possible that you will develop mutual sympathy.
- Ask your girlfriend to “accidentally” tell your guy that you have feelings for him. If he also has sympathy for you, he will be happy and may take the initiative.
Don't be afraid to be rejected. You can tell if a guy likes you in relation to you. If he is friendly and not rude, does not behave arrogantly, then he will respond to your declarations of feelings calmly and without offense. If you do not confess your love to a guy and suffer in silence, then the chances that you will be together are almost zero.
And if you make up your mind and hint or directly say that you like the young man, then your chances of mutual feelings increase by 50%. But even if the guy doesn’t reciprocate your feelings, unrequited love is always good. Not all people are given the opportunity to experience this bright feeling. Then, years later, you will remember your youthful love with warmth, but for now, drive away sad thoughts and think only about the good.
How to confess your love to a guy on VKontakte?
Confessing on social networks is easier than talking about your feelings while looking into the bottomless eyes of a guy. You can always lie that you made a mistake in the dialogue if his reaction is negative or incomprehensible.
You can send him just one phrase, like “Let's meet.” Or send a whole verse. As an option, ask your friend to do this for you, writing to him from your page that you like him. When he suddenly does not reciprocate, let your friend say that she was testing his reaction or was joking.
