Basics for pleasing men
Like women, men have many obvious and hidden erogenous zones on their bodies. Every girl knows about obvious areas - this is the groin area, neck, area behind the ear, lower abdomen. Everyone can have their own hidden erogenous zones. Some people enjoy a sensual full-body massage in a warm bath, some enjoy having their feet massaged, and some men enjoy intense sensations that border on pain, such as scratching or passionate biting. To determine what exactly suits your chosen one, you will need constant experiments and frank conversations with your man.
Ask your partner what he most often imagines in his erotic fantasies, what does he dream about? Please him by making his dream come true - this will delight him and add even more passion and trust to your relationship. After all, sex allows you not only to get physical release, but to strengthen relationships in a couple and make them more trusting.
Standard methods
Some women associate a man with a frog, the hero of the children's fairy tale “Thumbelina,” who only needed to eat and sleep, and by the last word they mean sex. But they are mistaken, since you can make your beloved guy feel good in other ways that do not concern the intimate sphere.
Gastronomic pleasures
Allan Pease says: If your man can't get an erection, give him a sandwich. A well-fed husband will be satisfied, now you can begin to answer all the questions of interest. When you want to see a healthy, strong and energetic person next to you, you need to monitor his diet. Add more healthy foods (fish, white meat) and less fast food to your diet. Give your husband nuts, almonds, and pistachios as snacks. Seafood contributes to the erotic mood: oysters, mussels, shrimp, squid. Be sure to use greenery that will ensure a pleasant night.
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Small gifts
Should a man give gifts? It turns out yes. When you give a guy a gift, you express your attention and love. Behind the courageous appearance of a warrior and conqueror there is a man who is not alien to pleasant feelings. The guy will always appreciate your efforts. After you have presented a gift, look into your loved one’s eyes - a childlike joy will appear in them, even if only for a moment. After such actions, the girl will no longer think about how to do something nice for her loved one in order to melt his heart.
If you love your husband, give him gifts, such as a keychain, a cup, a wallet, an anti-stress device, a smart bracelet, a phone holder, etc.
meetings with friends
No matter how much you would like to become your man’s whole world, you don’t need to do this. A girl should not prevent her partner from meeting friends. He should be able to rest and relax outside of the family. Thanks to this, the guy maintains physical and psychological balance. Learn to trust him and let him go out with friends. He will rest and be able to give you his love and respect.
If a girl tells a guy who to be friends with and when to communicate with his comrades, then she is seizing his territory and insulting his male dignity.
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Communication with family
Remember that only 2 people form a union; no third parties, even if it is a beloved mother, can interfere in the relationship. The best option is when a man has found a common language with your family, and you have found a common language with his, the families support each other, help and congratulate each other on the holidays. But this rarely happens. If your relatives are not very nice people who poison the lives of those around you, destroy your couple, condemn and manipulate, then it will be difficult for a guy to find a common language with them. If you want to communicate, communicate, but don’t force your partner to do it. This way you will be able to avoid conflicts and negative situations.
Even if your mother-in-law is wrong a thousand times, she is a mother, so you must show wisdom and patience.
Common interests
Why are joint activities so important for a couple? Two people in love can spend hours in bed and enjoy each other while making love. Over time, hormones subside, life is taken over by everyday problems and emptiness. Common interests help people get closer. It will be good if you start spending free time together, traveling, attending events, playing sports, etc.
If you value a man, but your hobbies don’t match, don’t despair. Psychologist Andrei Krylo argues that a family may have different interests. People just need to respect and accept each other completely. For example, a woman likes concerts, and a man likes to sit at home. It will be great if he meets and takes her to the holidays.
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Unusual ideas
To preserve feelings in a relationship and make a man feel something unusual, a woman should please him with surprises. If a guy takes lunch with him to work, then you can put a note in it so that he can read nice words at work. You can also put a sweet surprise or whatever he likes best. If you kiss your husband when he comes home, do it in an unusual way.
You can make romantic posters with the inscriptions “I love it when you smile”, “I feel great with you”, “You are the best” and attach them in a visible place. Send your husband an SMS with a declaration of love, a cheerful emoticon or a photo of a part of your body.
On distance
There are many ideas on how to please your loved one if he is not nearby. The biggest surprise for him will be your sudden arrival. But if this is impossible, then it would be a good idea to send him a gift, for example, order something interesting from an online store with delivery to his address. You can keep in touch via mobile phone, sending SMS and voice messages, talking about intimate topics. There are many opportunities to communicate via the Internet; here you can even spend romantic evenings, having private dances in front of the camera.
If he is driving in a car and listening to his favorite radio station, order a pleasant song. And don't forget to give your support, faith and love.
How to make a man feel good in bed
Try experimenting with toys or additional accessories. It just seems that there should always be a girl in the role of a subordinate. In fact, the ratings of videos in which a girl takes the initiative on porn sites are off the charts.
Try putting your loved one into bed, teasing him lightly with your hands or tongue, and then blindfolding him or tying him to the bed. Not being able to see you will make his sensations even more acute, and the lack of control on his part will give you the opportunity to torment him as long as necessary for a fantastic ending. Listen to his reaction and use hints to enhance the pleasure.
How to please a man through his pants
Light petting is an excellent prelude to sex. Try teasing him at a time when he doesn't expect it at all, for example, in a movie theater or under a table in a restaurant. A few light touches on his fly can excite him much more than direct contact with your hands. In combination with tender kisses and a few hot phrases, your evening is guaranteed to end in the bedroom; those who are especially extreme may not wait for this, but indulge in pleasures right in the car or in another secluded place.
Making it nice with our hands
There are several basic principles of competent petting:
- Warm and moist hands. Make sure your palms are warm and use lubricants or your own saliva to moisturize.
- Always start with smooth movements, gradually increasing the pace and sharpness. This is important for proper arousal enhancement.
- Experiment with the position of your fingers and palm on the penis, cover it completely or lightly touch it with your fingertips, observing the reactions. This way you will definitely find the right technique.
- Don't break the pace as soon as you feel that your partner is close to the end. Don't speed up, but don't slow down either.
- Don't forget about the scrotum - for many guys, a light touch on their testicles causes great delight.
- Don't remove your hands immediately after his orgasm. A standard orgasm lasts for several seconds, so don't rush to finish immediately after the first signs of it.
All these techniques will help to properly warm up a man for subsequent caresses or give him unusual sensations.
Completion4
After the colossal work has been completed, the man should be “calmed down.” And in this case, a head massage will come in handy. Gentle stroking and rhythmic squeezing of the temples will make an indelible impression on the stronger sex.
It is important for women to know how to make a man feel good during sex. Since many can only dream of such relaxation, it is in your power to fulfill the dream of your chosen one. And most importantly, gratitude will not take long to arrive, because a satisfied and satisfied man is ready to move even mountains for the sake of his beloved. So why not become just such a woman? All in your hands!
Victoria Fomina
Expert
Doctor sexologist of the highest category, psychiatrist, psychotherapist. I have been working as a sexologist for more than 10 years. I help couples resolve problems in their sex life.
Women's hands are capable of creating real miracles, and this also applies to sexual life. Many men dream of their beloved woman bringing them to orgasm with her hands! This is an even more intimate and erotic process than oral sex. In parallel with masturbation, you can kiss, hug and indulge in passion to the fullest. And if you come to prostate massage... Not every guy will agree to this, but in vain. This is a completely new, unknown pleasure that is difficult to compare with anything else. If you can cope with your moral barriers and prejudices, it will be a real bomb!
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How to make it pleasant with your mouth
Oral sex is a real pleasure for a man. If you have previously avoided oral sex, please your loved one. If you feel insecure, watch experienced girls in porn films and highlight the basic principles of good oral sex.
- Moisturize your hands thoroughly, taking care that your hands and mouth are not too cold or hot. If you drink or eat hot or cold food, wait 5-10 minutes after eating.
- Start smoothly, with caressing hands and light kisses. Play with the frenulum and head, gradually increasing the intensity and pace.
- Hide your teeth behind your lips, gradually grab the penis completely with your mouth, making forward movements.
- Help yourself with your hands and gradually speed up, listening to your loved one’s reaction. If this is your first time, ask him to guide you.
In the art of sex, experience is the main teacher. By trying different techniques and techniques, you will find the best options specifically for your couple.
How to make someone feel good with touches
Delicate female fingers are simply created for affectionate touches. Men adore women's hands when they feel their touch; this already serves as powerful erotic stimulation. Touch your loved one more often, with or without reason - this will give him great pleasure and will also contribute to your rapprochement. It has been proven that tactile contact evokes much more trust and affection than verbal contact. If you are looking for a simple way to make a guy feel good with your hands, start with this.
Erotic ways
Physical manifestations of love are the most important area in the relationship between two partners. If a girl wants to make her husband successful, satisfied, happy, she should maintain interest in herself. Let's figure out how to please your man in order to arouse his constant desire.
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Erogenous zones
There are many areas on the male body that respond to pleasant touches. With the right influence, you can even bring your loved one to orgasm, so use the erogenous zones and bring bliss to your loved one.
The most sensitive places are the lips, tongue, sides of the neck, stomach, and the area above the navel. Be sure to pay attention to the breasts and nipples. The second position is occupied by the fingers, the space between them and the back. Some guys experience increased sensitivity in the area of the shoulder blades, under the knees, and elbows. Stroke, kiss, caress with your lips, give incredibly pleasant things to your beloved husband in bed.
Mastering new poses
If you want to please your loved one in bed, the easiest way to renew your intimate relationship is to try something new. Sexual positions will add new shades of your love. When changing the position of the body, the partner sees the beloved from a different angle, and new feelings arise in him. For example, a pose from behind opens up a view of a woman's buttocks.
When changing position, the penis penetrates from different angles, acts with different intensities, so the woman will also experience each position in a new way. Different body positions are an opportunity to compensate for sexual incompatibility if a man has a large or, conversely, small penis.
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Whisper and languid voice
A woman is able to arouse her partner's desire with her voice. It is important to pause and take languid sighs. Research shows that low frequencies are more pleasant. Chest voices are perceived as sexy. A woman can learn to speak languidly by performing special breathing exercises. You should speak slowly, smoothly, separating words from each other. Even if you don’t have the voice of a fatal seductress, you can evoke sexual desire with a pleasant whisper.
Say something seductive quietly in your loved one's ear. A man will feel contact with your skin and breath.
Role-playing games
Transformations will help you get closer. In bed you can resolve conflicts and throw out negative emotions. The most popular games are:
- Madam. If the wife is in charge all the time and wants to seize power, then she can be given 1 day a week when she can give orders. After this, in ordinary life she will not want to dominate her partner.
- Teacher. This is the fantasy of all men since childhood, when they want to punish a strict teacher. Be sure to give your spouse this opportunity.
Spend quality time, change, enjoy each other. Role-playing games will help break up the routine of family life.
Wumbuilding
The vaginal muscles also need training. Intimate exercises help a woman feel better about her partner and improve mutual sensations during sex.
Vumbuilding will restore muscles after childbirth and increase tone, which becomes weaker over the years. The partners' orgasm will increase in strength. In this way, a woman takes care of the functioning of the genitourinary system.
The common Kegel exercise is recommended to be performed as many times as the age of the fairer sex. You can make cuts anywhere, since no one will notice them, and the man will definitely be happy with the internal changes. Now you know how to make your husband feel incredibly good in bed at any age.
Accessories for sex
Accessories increase stimulation and pleasure for partners. The main thing when you offer a new toy is that your partner does not think that you are unhappy with him in bed. Say that you just want to bring something new, to make the man feel good in bed. The most popular toys are dildo, vibrator, anal plug, attachments, prostate stimulator. There are even paired toys for when partners are far away. The device transmits vibrations to another via Bluetooth.
Threesome
Men dream of being in bed with two women. This is how their natural instincts manifest themselves when they have several females. This is also a manifestation of the mama’s boy complex, when you want more love.
If you agree to extreme sex, then make sure that the third girl is a proven, pleasant stranger who will not push you off the bed of love.
When this is not a husband, but just an acquaintance, you should not make such sacrifices at all. If your spouse insists, and you agree to have a threesome, then agree on the conditions in advance. Consider also the option that later there will be intimacy with two men.
Tattoo and piercing
Guys love it when a girl has a navel piercing. It looks very sexy. Some people are turned on by tattoos on their shoulder or tailbone. When the picture is made aesthetically and neatly, the male sex likes it. There are those who are categorically against tattoos and piercings, so it’s impossible to say for sure how guys feel about this.
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Every man has his own preferences. The guy will be pleased if you get a tattoo for his sake. It would be romantic to choose the same drawings as him.
