Candy-bouquet period
The initial stage of a relationship, when a man begins to actively court a woman, is the candy-bouquet period. Time for romantic dates, gifts, surprises.
What to do to win the lady of your heart:
- Attention and care. Everyone likes it when they are worried and worried about them, so basic questions about how you are doing, whether you dressed warmly, whether you got to work well, will be a signal that the girl is not indifferent.
- Unexpected surprises: you can give some unusual flower arrangements, bouquets of toys or sweet gifts. The range of today's stores is very wide, you can choose something for every taste and at an affordable price.
- Of course, dates. This tradition dates back to ancient times; already in those days, a man and a woman retired for a walk or a meal. Time spent together allows you to communicate and get to know a person better.
- Calls and messages. The modern age of technology helps lovers to stay in touch even despite the distance; they need to take advantage of this wonderful opportunity.
- Extraordinary gifts and entertainment. For example, it is interesting to go through some quest together on a certain topic or go to the “Night of Museums”. You can find out the schedule of events in your city and plan your exit.
- Celebrate small anniversaries, it's romantic and at the same time shows the importance of relationships.
- Meet them from work and help with everyday issues.
- If you are interested in a girl's hobbies and hobbies, share yours.
In this video, psychologist Dmitry Moskovtsev will tell you how to show your feelings to your loved one:
How to show your love to a girl?
In the modern world, the institution of family is undergoing dramatic changes. Now the values are different:
- Self-development.
- Career.
- Trips.
- Education.
Of course, every person wants to find his other half, but it is not so simple and often, an unsuccessful first experience puts a blockade to new acquaintances and feelings. There is a fear of reliving the pain and suffering from separation or betrayal, from unfulfilled plans and deception. Therefore, many young people actively work and study in order to drown out their mental pain.
But what happens when people like each other? The girl feels the boy’s sympathy, but does not fully trust him.
Tips for men:
- Show your feelings, no need to be shy. Sometimes an unanswered call or SMS can lead to thoughts of indifference. It is the little things that make up the big puzzle of a relationship.
- Give gifts. These don't have to be luxurious gifts. No, because girls are romantic natures. Surprise: for example, a joint portrait or paintings, something made with your own hands (notes, postcards, etc.).
- Spend time together, go for walks and relax. But here you need to maintain a balance, each person needs personal space. Therefore, you don’t need to live entirely in the girl’s interests. Balance plays one of the main roles in relationships.
- You can choose a place that symbolizes your feelings. For example, the place of the first meeting or kiss, or maybe just your favorite park where you often walk.
- In conflicts, try to find a compromise. There is no need to be categorical. After all, a relationship is the work of two people. You need to be able to negotiate.
- Don't give in to provocations. Very often, girls who have experienced a difficult breakup with a man do not fight for a new relationship and throw around words about breaking up. But in reality, they expect the young man to defend the relationship and be firm in his decision to seek her affection.
- Be sure to support and protect your companion.
The best declaration of love to a girl in prose
Your declaration of love to a girl in prose, written with your own hand on an ordinary white sheet, will say more than a huge bouquet of flowers. Beautiful words can show your true feelings. After all, this is not just a text - a sweet letter - it’s your feelings. Here are some more love messages:
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- My only one! Do you remember the moment when we first met? I remember that time stopped, and only you remained real. Nothing existed around, only your face. Eyes are like two dazzling stars, they still guide me through life, and will always be so. I remember that I behaved ridiculously, you laughed. Oh, how I love your laughter! You are like an angel, illuminated by a bright light. I am infinitely happy, I live by your love. We will always be together! You are my favorite girl!
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- Bunny, you are often offended that I don’t tell you enough about love. But know that no one in the whole wide world can replace you for me. I breathe you, my dear. You and I are made for each other. I believe that you will be happy with me. I will do everything to make you smile more often and enjoy life. For the hundredth time I apologize for the fact that sometimes I am inattentive to you, that I kiss you more and more often while running. Every moment when you are near is a holiday for me, and you are my sunshine.
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- Darling, I thank the heavens that I can call you mine. Fate gave me a chance to become happy next to a girl like you. I value you very much and am afraid of losing you. You are like a crystal Madonna to me, and I am happy to worship you, my goddess. It’s difficult for me to find words to describe all the feelings that you awakened in me. I'm sick of you, and this is the best thing that has ever happened to me. I need you like air, like life. Because you are my life!
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- I have never experienced a feeling stronger than loving you, my sweet girl! With you, the world around is filled with colors, with you I want to rejoice in everything around me. You won my heart from the first sight of your big brown eyes. And from that moment I couldn't think about anything else. I want to spend my days with you, I want to give you only happy moments. I want you to smile, my dear. Your smile illuminates everything around with joy and makes the sun shine even brighter.
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- Is there a feeling brighter and stronger than love? Next to you, my wonderful one, I realized that there is nothing more important than love. You appeared in my life, and everything became different. I realized that I have someone to live for, someone to create for, someone to become better and more perfect for. For your sake, my joy! I will do everything to make you happy!
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- Your eyes are like two blue lakes, there is so much warmth and love in them... Your lips are so similar to rose petals, you really want to touch them... Your blond hair fluttering in the wind is like ears of wheat on a fine summer day... Your graceful figure resembles the form of a swan, noble and magnificent... You are perfect. I love you!
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- Our meeting was destined for us by heaven. I believe that you are my destiny, and I want to live my whole life with you. I love you, my best of all living on Earth...
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- My feeling for you is difficult to describe in words... When I don’t hear your ringing voice, when I don’t see you, the whole world becomes gray and insignificant. I want to spend more and more time with you, I want to take care of you, get to know you, your interests, your outlook on life. I want to become one with you, so that no one and nothing can separate us. I love you so much…!
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- I remember that wonderful day when we met you. It was early autumn. I immediately liked your graceful gait, your impeccable taste in clothes, and when I heard your sweet voice and saw your look, enchanting and mysterious, I fell in love like a boy. And now there is only you in my thoughts, only you alone. I want our relationship to become stronger and stronger. I want to confess, I love you, my beauty!
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- Every hour, every minute, every second of my life is filled with thoughts of you, my beloved. I wake up and fall asleep thinking only about you. You are the best thing in my life. I am grateful to God that we met on that sunny spring day. I will do everything possible to ensure that we are always together!
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- Wherever I am, whatever I do, I think about you. I really hope that I am also in your thoughts, and that you, just like me, are looking forward to our meeting. Just a little more and we will be close, we will enjoy each other to the last drop.
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- Today I want to confess to you... I love you, more than life, more than anyone in the world. You are alone in my thoughts and in my heart. I can’t imagine my life without you, my beautiful nymph.
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- I feel very bad without you, I miss you very much. The world without you loses color and fades. I want to be near you now. Hugging your fragile shoulders, kissing your soft plump lips, stroking your blond hair. You are an angel, you are the most beautiful girl in the world! Be mine forever, I love you very much!
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Phrases that prove love
As you know, women love with their ears. This truism has long been known. Men and women have not only differences in gender, but also in the structure of the brain. The weaker sex has a larger number of neural fibers that are responsible for information. Accordingly, girls need more communication and frequent conversations.
Compliments are always nice. But when a beloved man says pleasant words, it makes her doubly happy and the woman blossoms before her eyes.
To show your love, say the following phrases more often:
- "I love you". Despite the fact that this is a standard expression and has already lost its sacred meaning, it does not lose its importance. Each one makes three cherished words to hear. There is no need to be shy, talk about your feelings directly and without reason;
- “You are a dear and special person to me, my half.” This is true if you are in love. Simple words but with so much meaning;
- “The only and beloved” - pleasant compliments that reflect your feelings;
- "unique and the best woman." After all, every girl wants to hear such words from her beloved man;
- “The Star of My Life That Lights My Path” is an eloquent expression of love and the importance of relationships;
- Call your woman by name, because it is the most pleasant sound. Of course, add the epithets beloved, unsurpassed, desired;
- “There is only you in my heart”;
- “I need you like air and water”;
- “You fill my life with meaning”;
- “Be my wife” is one of the phrases that every woman wants to hear from the man she loves.
How can I prove to her that I love her? How to prove your love with words and deeds?
The most wonderful feeling on the planet is the feeling of falling in love. Anyone who has experienced it once will never forget it. Thousands of books have been written on this topic, hundreds of paintings have been drawn and an endless number of songs have been sung. And there is only one thing that can turn this feeling from beautiful into painful and very cruel. This happens when your crush is not reciprocated. And you are faced with a choice: give up and give up, or look for a way to prove your love. If you are reading this article, then you are not one of those who are used to giving up and this undoubtedly deserves respect. But how can I prove to her that I love her? Let's figure it out. There are several fairly effective methods.
Long distance relationship
Due to life circumstances, sometimes lovers are forced to separate for a while, due to work, study or family difficulties. During such a period, it is especially important to know that you are loved. Therefore, men often try to surprise their other half without even being there. Options:
- You can order flowers delivered to work or home.
- Leave love notes around the apartment before leaving.
- Hide little surprises in unexpected places.
- Be sure to call and write messages, talk about feelings.
- Send a sweet gift (personalized cupcakes and pastries are popular now).
Communication and conflict management
Any relationship is impossible without quarrels. After all, two people meet, each with their own habits and worldview. Therefore, some contradictions are inevitable. Perhaps the main advice is to solve problems through dialogue. Talk to each other, look for a compromise without infringing on the interests of anyone.
Take time to discuss the events of the day, some personal topics, and always for yourself. Have your own interests and hobbies.
The relationship between a man and a woman often depends on the stronger sex. Ladies want to be confident in their companion, protected and feel a strong shoulder next to them. This question of how to prove your love to a girl worries many young men. Feelings and intentions are confirmed by words and actions. Don't be afraid to express your emotions.
Chivalry: basic methods
To understand how to prove to a girl that you love her, learn:
- Speak
. No matter how trite it may sound, women love with their ears, so more often give the girl tenderness in words. Moreover, these can be not only some original phrases, but also time-tested ones - poems by classics and contemporaries, funny affectionate nicknames, love notes. - Enter
. Beautiful words are, of course, good, but you can only prove something by deeds. Do some beautiful deed - one that your companion least expects. Have you ever cooked breakfast for your loved one? So it's time to do it. Sometimes just washing the dishes after dinner is enough to make an impression. - Make romantic surprises
. This could be either a cute inscription on the asphalt with a declaration of your feelings, or a candlelight dinner and a picnic on the seashore. Even buying something that a girl has long dreamed of. At the same time, do not forget about everyday signs of attention that are considered small things: your favorite candies and a bouquet for no reason, an open car door and a soft toy for a personal event. - Extremes and originality
. Do you think climbing onto the balcony with a bouquet is a relic of the past? Then arrange a parachute jump - such an act will definitely make an impression. This category may include a public declaration of love, for example, on radio or television, riding a yacht, or a banner in the city center with a photo of you together.
